I am on a mission to empower and elevate others in their most intimate relationships, including their connection to self. I help people from all walks of life to heal shame and sexual trauma so they can rebirth their emotional and sexual reality to be an authentic expression of their deepest truths.

I am able to bring inspiration and insight from my own journey to spiritual and sexual empowerment because I have personally healed from addiction, abuse, sexual assault and more #MeToo moments than I can count. It’s been an amazing journey! After many years of struggle, I eventually unlocked the secrets to my spiritual and sexual sovereignty and today I enjoy an amazing, elevating, exciting and magical reality that far surpasses what I ever imagined possible!

As an Internal Family Systems Informed (IFS) Relationship Coach, Certified Sexologist, Anger Specialist and Trained Rape and Domestic Violence Counselor I bring a rich array of expertise to my coaching practice. And as a sex positive activist I have been featured on a variety of platforms including CNN, FOX, Bill Maher’s Politically Incorrect, Yale, Stanford and the New York Times. My first book, Sex Secrets of Escorts (Penguin 2005) has been translated into four languages and you can find my articles on many online platforms including Medium.